English idiom

it takes two to tango

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Figurative meaning

both parties are responsible for a situation

Why this phrase?

A tango needs two dancers; a quarrel or deal, the phrase says, likewise needs two willing participants.

Example

“Don't blame her alone — it takes two to tango.”

Dictionary details

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Expressions connected by reviewed component words or topic tags.

bury the hatchet

to reconcile with someone and bring a quarrel to an end

kiss and make up

to reconcile and become friendly again after an argument

mend fences

to rebuild friendly relations after a dispute

a bone of contention

a subject that causes disagreement or argument between people

keep the peace

to prevent conflict and maintain calm between people or groups

save face

to protect one's dignity or public reputation after embarrassment or failure

Source methodology

Meanings, register, CEFR, and examples come from the reviewed dictionary record. Expression notes may describe a reviewed present-day word picture or a background note; they are not presented as verified etymology.

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